Gang Leader Lieutenant Question

 

Firstly, I must mention. This is a question that I received in Quora today. I don't know why I was asked but here it is. You have to join Quora to understand the culture there. I only wonder because I mentioned something similar in my post today and then this question pops up. On a different note: Who doesn't love Quora by now? I do!

How often do leaders of a gang sow discord amongst their lieutenants so that they wouldn't conspire against them to take over the gang?

Melee Lee

Researcher at Freelancing (2018–present)Just now

Well I didn’t know that they intentionally sow discord to prevent their lieutenants from taking over. I guess they would do this every two months. How high is this rank in a gang? I am guessing it is a very high rank? My guess is every two or three months. I would hope they select loyal members though

What is a lieutenant in a gang?

Gang Lieutenants are High Ranking members of a gang who owns a little part from there Gang for there Fronts and Territories. They can send a little crew to attack other gangs to either kill another High-ranking member of another gang or to expand there businesses and take over Territories 

Coworkers Tell You When To Take a Break

 

Were you ever told when or when not to take your break for lunch by someone who had absolutely no authority over you? What did you do?

I have seen it myself. The best thing to do is this. Look at them and walk out to get your lunch. Don’t say anything just leave. I worked with a few co-workers who tried to establish boss authority over other co workers even though they had no right to do so. I call this the play dumb method. Look at them like you don’t know what they are saying….and then walk out. If you let them tell you when to take a break then they will establish dominance in the workplace. You will have to deal with them every day!

If it is worth it then befriend them and say “I am going on my break today at 11am” Say it early on and announce it as if it is an appointment you must go on. This is another way to handle it. I know that this is a situation that becomes very frustrating and if you let it happen then it will continue.

Office Snitches and Informers: Is this the new Norm

 

Why do some colleagues like wandering around the office and putting so much effort into monitoring others’ laptop screens?

Melee Lee

Researcher at Freelancing (2018–present)Just now

I personally have noticed a new trend at work. Pretend you are better than everyone else and then you will get promoted. I see co workers watching other co workers and then they become commentators about each other. “He doesn’t do this….”She doesn’t do that”…”No one does this like I do!” “Why doesn’t anyone else do….what I do?” If you look at it work has become like grade school again. We all want to be the teacher’s pet and so as adults we do it in a more grown up way but it is the same game.

Why would colleagues care about what other people have on their lap tops? It must deflect their boredom or dissatisfaction with the job. They are policing others and watching others now, which is not even in their job description! Sometimes management encourages office snitches and informers in the workplace. I really hate it when I am working all day….go on my 15 minute break and a colleague walks into the breakroom at 1pm and says “coffee at this hour?” I am like…”excuse m moi”?  Mind your business please! I have to go home and play with my children for the next five hours. soooo…..

People are way too involved nowadays with what other people are doing! Also they check on the lap tops (to check to see if you are on Amazon Prime internet shopping again). lol! 👀👸👲😕😤

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Harassing Text Messages: Should You Answer

 Answer the Text lol!

Melee Lee

Researcher at Freelancing (2018–present)Just now

If you don’t answer harassing text messages, calls, and emails, does it piss the stalker off even more?

Honestly….I would answer the harassing texts because…it is like giving a dog a bone. They will leave you alone for the day. If you really ignore them for months on end then maybe they will move on.

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What is Neophobia

Date: May 2022

My Question is why would someone ask me about Neophobia? In Quora it said...you have a question from someone who wants YOUR ANSWER. So I thought it was going to be a general phobia. I looked it up and then the disturbing phobia is...THIS!

"the type of fear response that is engaged when there is uncertainty of whether or not a threat exists, or if the threat is distant"

Now I don't know about you but if you are being gang stalked and you read this... you might wonder if it is a hidden message or threat directed at you. 

To make it worse the User name was created in May 2022. Which is unusual because it means that the who person created this account did it this month. I am sure that this person is real and he or she meant no harm.

In my Psych Unit Blog though....we do have to wonder and analyze this message. I am hoping it is not anything to worry about. Do you see why I feel sort of "Entertained"?